Dylan’s Drawings: Envelope with hearts, Pepperoni pizza and Wii veggies

Dylan drew these today and asked me to post them to “the website on Firefox”. I was very happy to see these, because he hasn’t done very much drawing for most of this week. But today he was back to his usual form.

First up is a very sweet envelope with hearts:

Envelope with Hearts
Envelope with Hearts

Then we have a slice of pepperoni pizza – not that Dylan likes pepperoni pizza. He prefers cheese only, but I guess when you’re drawing, the pepperoni slices are more interesting than just cheese.

Pepperoni Pizza
Pepperoni Pizza

And finally, there’s this really cute picture of fruits and veggies – I think maybe Dylan was thinking about inventing a new Wii game:

Fruits and Veggies and Wii
Fruits and Veggies and Wii

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Wisdom

Wow. More inspiration. I found this at Jamie’s blog, Starshyne Productions, and it was absolutely inspiring. What we can achieve! And so much experience, so much wisdom.

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And then there’s Jamie’s beautiful blog post on being present, choosing life. I loved reading about her breakthrough.

This is two days in a row that I’ve been touched by this thought, that art is accessible, that it is everywhere, in our everyday, all around us.

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Some Writing Motivation

I was stuck in the writing of my NaNoWriMo novel, stuck at that part where it just doesn’t feel very good to me at all. And then last night, a funny thing happened.

I was surfing around, and came across this quote by Stephen King. It sounds like it’s from On Writing, though I’m not sure.

“Read four hours a day and write four hours a day. If you cannot find the time for that, you can’t expect to become a good writer.” – Stephen King

I love On Writing – it’s one of the most motivating writing books around. So I have that on my desk to re-read. Earlier this month I started up my book review blog, and I have been loving it. Not only that, I’ve been reading steadily. Four hours a day? Sounds good to me. And I can get that other four hours of writing in, too. Just have to figure out when to squish in the paying work, that’s all.

And then, after reading this quote, I found Jolie at Cuppa Jolie. In her I Made It! 5000 Words Today … post talked about something her blog friend Holly had told her that really helped:

First, Holly mentioned (somewhere along the line) about being at a macro level instead of micro. Keeping this in mind helped me bunches. It’s the big picture story I’m working on. I can go back later, when I’m more in tune with the story and the characters, and add the details that will make all the difference. Right now, I need to make the character walk and talk and doing that helped me get to 5000 words.

That last bit especially – “Right now, I need to make the character walk and talk …”

That’s all I needed to do. Just make my characters walk and talk and move them forward. And when I started to think that way, I knew I would be able to start writing more of the novel again.

So last night, I went to bed feeling motivated again. Then, this morning, lying there in that stage between awake and asleep, a new plot piece came to me. It’s a wonderful plot piece – it makes the villain more villainy, adds more drama, and ties up some loose ends!

I’m off to write now! I don’t think I’ll get 5000 words in today, but at least I actually feel like I have something to write now.

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Dylan Reads His First Book!

Dylan Reads His First Book
Dylan Reads His First Book

It was a very exciting moment around here. He did it all by himself while in bed last night (after he ran out of creative bedtime excuses) and we ran up – and he read it to us again! The book is called Mac, and it’s book 4 of the Bob Books set. (We’re not sure where book 1 and 2 went to, and he decided to skip book 3 and go straight to book 4).

He is very pleased with himself. Rightly so! (We took the picture today.)

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Bedtime Creativity

I’m writing this because I figured I could either rant/rave/growl OR marvel at my child’s bedtime creativity:

(Note: please just add a handful of exclamation marks at the end of each request, and imagine a childish voice yelling each request (command?) at the top of robust five-year-old lungs)

1. “Mommy, I want water.” (Yes. Classic. I know. But it gets better than this. Much, much better.)

2. “Mommy, I want to go get my own water.”

3. “Mommy, I want the blue cup, not the Boston Pizza cup.”

4. “Mommy, I want the Boston Pizza cup, not the blue cup.”

5. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes up. “I just wanted to tell you what I’m going to dream about.”

6. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes upstairs. “I just wanted to tell you what I’m going to play with when I get up in the morning.”

7. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes upstairs. “I just wanted to tell you what I want us to do tomorrow.”

8. “Mommy, I have to go to the bathroom.”

9. “Mommy, I’m IN THE BATHROOM and making brown tinky butt.” (Yes, we say that around here. It started out as a kind of cute saying and now, uh, has stuck. So to speak.)

10. “Mommy, I want new music.” (The CD player is there, within his reach. Yes, he knows how to turn it on. Yes, he knows how to change CDs.)

11. “Mommy, I want you to turn on the music again.” (See no. 10 above.)

12. “Mommy, I want to sleep on the other side of the bed.”

13. “Mommy, I want to sleep in the middle of the bed.”

14. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes upstairs. “Can you help me pick up my covers? They dropped on the floor.”

15. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes upstairs. “I don’t want to dream about Swiper [the fox, from Dora the Explorer].”

16. “Mommy, my back is itchy.”

17. “Mommy, I want you to put cream on my back.”

18. “Mommy, I need more water. I drank up all of it already.”

19. “Mommy, the curtains fell down.” (Because he was pulling on them while looking out his window.)

20. “Mommy, I need you.” Mommy comes upstairs. “Look at this mosaic piece that came off my mosaic picture. Can you put it back?”

There’s more but someone’s calling, “Mommy, I need you” and Mommy needs to go upstairs …

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One Word Answers Meme

I’m a little blogging goddess today, so many posts! But today’s really been my first chance to get out and about reading everyone’s blogs and visiting links since before that whole deadline crunch thing happened, and I’m telling you – it feels so good!

I was just over at Lynn’s blog, and she’s got a wonderful meme up. It looks like great fun, so here are my one word answers:

1. Where is your cell phone? Here
2. Where is your significant other? Kitchen
3. Your hair color? Black
4. Your mother? Toronto
5. Your father? uncertain
6. Your favorite thing? books
7. Your dream last night? running
8. Your dream/goal? published
9. The room you’re in? office
10. Your hobby? art
11. Your fear? Mice
12. Where do you want to be in six years? Vancouver
13. Where were you last night? Here
14. What you’re not? unhappy
15. One of your wish list items? oceanview
16. Where you grew up? Vancouver
17. The last thing you did? read
18. What are you wearing? Clothes
19. Your T.V.? off
20. Your pet? Cat
21. Your computer? yes
22. Your mood? happy
23. Missing someone? no
24. Your car? outside
25. Something you’re not wearing? glasses
26. Favorite store? books
27. Your Summer? maritimes
28. Love someone? lots
29. Your favorite color? Green
30. When is the last time you laughed? now
31. Last time you cried? yesterday

But I have to say, yesterday’s tears were tears of joy. These days, they usually are.

Thanks, Lynn! That was fun!

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The ABC 3D Book

I just came across this video for this amazing ABC3D Book over at The Miss Rumphius Effect. Borrowing from Lily, all I can is Wow.

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Ten Things I am thankful for this year

Playing Ten on Tuesday:

1. Field Center
2. My darling FC group.
3. My darling affiliate goddesses.
4. My kids and how they’re growing and learning
5. My husband the Sensei Chef (ssshhh … don’t tell him I used that term. He really really really doesn’t like it. But it’s true)
6. Eating so many lovely, delicious dishes.
7. Finding my way back to writing.
8. Finding my art again.
9. Finding a contractor and having the renovations start!
10. All the beautiful little glorious moments that make up my days – things like sipping coffee while nestled in the comfy armchair, sunlight splashing over me; hugs from Dylan; talking with Ward into the wee hours of the night; having wonderful, amazing conversations with Hayley and Sean; loving the colour of my manicure, of all things; emails from friends; and many, many more beautiful glorious little moments.

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Staying in Love with Life

Well, that’s rather an odd title, and I didn’t know I was going to write it until it popped out. Seriously, I was just sitting here thinking that I should work a bit more on my Art Every Day Month project and of course, I’m in NaPoBloMo so I need to write a post today.

Here’s a serious aside that totally takes away from what I’m going to write about in this post but it’s buzzing in my head so if I don’t get it out, it’s going to buzz around more and throw a wrench into the whole post-writing works: I can’t help wondering, why is it I don’t GET NaPloBloMo as an “url acronym”. I mean, I can never remember it the way I remember NaNoWriMo. I always want to say, “NaBloMo … um something”. The only reason why I get it right is because I check out my own links first, each and every time. Sheesh. You’d think I’d know it by now.

Okay, now that I have that out of my system, back to Staying in Love with Life. What I really wanted to say is that I’m having one of those gloriously beautiful moments when I realize how wonderful this life I’ve created is.

I love moments like this, because the bliss factor is just brilliant. I also love that I’m having this moment, when just four hours ago I was tackling a deadline for an assignment that I really really didn’t like. I was emailing friends and telling my family, look, next time something like this comes up, please, please, please REMIND me how much I hated it the last time, so I won’t take it on again.

Yet still, now that it’s over and done with, I am touching that bliss. There’s a consistency to the practice of Being who you choose to be, and this, I think, is what happens when you do practice this Being consistently, as consistently as possible. I’ve been doing that, or being aware of wanting to do that (two different things but still close enough in some ways, I think).

Dylan is all better now, by the way. He insisted I take this picture of him “doing ballet”:

dylanpose1

Yes, that’s my kid. He loves trains, cars and trucks, princesses, dragons, playing the Wii, jumping on the trampoline, going to IKEA just to have their mac n cheese, ballet, his Trainz game on the computer, Thomas the Tank Engine, chess, drawing, singing and giving lots of hugs and kisses. We’ve been trying to find a ballet or dance class that he can take that isn’t all girls. I figure one will show up when the timing is right.

And right now, it feels so easy staying in love with life.

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Renovations Begin Tomorrow

We’ve been waiting for this moment for several years now. It’s a long story, one that we decided we’d no longer talk about anymore, involving a very badly done renovation and a contractor who talked big but didn’t have a clue what he was doing. Since neither did we, it didn’t make for good results. Then, a baby (Dylan) came into being, and our lives changed: both in pace and in spirit.

(By the way, if you want to get a sense of what some of our house still looks like, just check out the “before” pictures below – I could take shots like that in a bunch of places. I am way too familiar with bare, unmudded drywall …)

So fast forward seven years (my goodness, it’s been THAT long that we’ve lived in this half-finished house!) and we both feel we’ve discovered the right contractor for our place. Out of all the contractors we’ve talked to, all the ones who’ve deigned to come see the place and give us a price, he’s been the only one who (1) didn’t suggest we tear down the whole place and build a ranch house instead, (2) gasp in horror at the idea of doing a renovation instead of a tear-down (are you sensing a pattern here?) or (3) marvel at how “different” a house this is, and how a tear-down would be the thing to do.

We have no plans to tear-down our house. We do live in the suburbs, just outside of Toronto, but unlike the rest of the community, the area we live in is not made up of new or practically new houses (as in, built within the last 20 years). We have a very distinctive house, the kind of house that a realtor would say, ah, yes, not everyone would like it, but certain people would just adore this property.

We are that type of person. The first time the house was listed, we were all ready to go see it – but the sellers, who were in the midst of a break-up, decided they would give their relationship another go, and took the house off the market. A little while later (the go at repairing the relationship apparently didn’t work) the house was back on the market, and this time the timing was perfect. We were in the market, and went to see it on the day it was listed. We made an offer for the house that very day.

I remember saying to Ward, if the inside is only half as beautiful as the outside, I want this house. And the inside turned out to be about three-quarters as beautiful as the outside. It was small – too small for us, really – and it was old. The roof leaked, the windows needed replacing, and it has a very odd design. The front door opened directly into the sleeping area, and the gathering areas (kitchen, living room, dining room) are all downstairs, in what would be a basement in any other house. We don’t actually HAVE a basement. But this downstairs walks out to the backyard, so when you’re down there, you don’t actually really feel like you’re in a basement area – because you’re not.

So no, this house is not a tear down (although after the botched renos, I have to say it’s probably far more of a tear down now than it ever was!). Our outdoors is just so beautiful. We’ve fooled with it quite a lot in the years we’ve been here, so it looks nothing like what we fell in love with, but since we had a hand in the transformation, it’s safe to say we’re more in love with our property than even that very first look.

This is a part of our side garden:

Zen Garden
Zen Garden

This is a part of our back deck:

Back Deck
Back Deck

This is our kitchen deck. This picture was taken just after Ward finished building it. We have two long wooden tables there now plus wooden chairs, but I can’t find the pictures, so this will have to do for now!

Kitchen Deck
Kitchen Deck

We put in a new IKEA kitchen about three years ago that we like very much. These pictures are from just after that renovation – it’s too messy right now to take new pictures. Just replace the appliances with stainless ones, move the microwave to a different corner and replace the small bookcase with a large one with glass doors, and that’s about the way it looks now (when it’s not messy).

Kitchen
Kitchen
Another View of the Kitchen
Another View of the Kitchen

So you see why we’ve shied away from all the contractors who hinted it would be the perfect thing to tear down our house and put up some sprawling ranch house? Sure, it’s not perfect. It gets very cold, especially in the addition, during the winter. We have exterior holes which mice apparently have marked as the entrance to their winter abode (ie inside our floors).

But this contractor (the one who STARTS TOMORROW), who is a good friend of our bookkeepers, took a look at the house and said, “wow, look at those lines.” “What an interesting job this will be.” And, part of what sold us, “I like the actual renovation-type jobs the best.”

He also got bonus points for not laughing at the drywall mudding job in the master bedroom, which yours truly worked her behind off to accomplish, huge bumps and all.

Plus, he’s only ever been at the most an hour late for appointments with us (unlike other people who’ve worked on the house and seemed to consider arriving the next day as being “fashionably late”). Not only that, so far he has always CALLED us if he’s going to be late. We find this to be very amazing.

So this is the area he’s going to transform first:

Before Picture No. 1
Before Picture No. 1

As to why there’s an exterior door hanging in the middle of nowhere, I’ll just say that I’ve been known to say things like that scene in Sleepless in Seattle. You know: “why don’t we just pick up the house, rotate it, so that the living room is the dining room and the dining room is now the kitchen and …” Once, about an hour before company was due to arrive for dinner, I actually persuaded Ward to MOVE the train room into the dining room, and the dining room into the train room, transforming it into, uh, the dining room (again – because a month previously I had persuaded him to do the first switcheroo).

Anyway, I had the bright idea of increasing the valuation for our house (which kept being appraised as a bungalow, so that none of the living space downstairs, in the not-basement, was counted) by cutting away the floor and putting in an entrance right in the middle. It transformed our house into a “backsplit”. But it just never really worked structurally. (It did help with the appraisal value though. See, there is usually a method to my madness, if you look hard enough …)

Before Picture No. 1
Before Picture No. 1

So the door’s going to go. We’ll get a nice window, the ceiling put back in, a laundry room that leads into the bathroom (right now you get into the downstairs bathroom by going through the furnace room, which means walking by the cat litter, which our daughter Hayley is in charge of cleaning. Enough said about that cat litter – I’ll leave it to your imagination.) And upstairs we’ll have a nice little alcove where we’ll be putting a sofa bed. My mom will be able to have a nice little place to herself when she sleeps over.

It will be perfect. Just keep your fingers crossed for us, please!

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